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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 18]
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
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<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 28]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
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<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 71]
<?php endif; ?><?php if ( $topic['Topic']['attachment'] ): ?>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
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<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
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<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
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<?php endif; ?><?php if ( $topic['Topic']['attachment'] ): ?>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
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<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 82]
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
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<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
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<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
(int) 17 => 'attachment_download',
(int) 18 => 'message_send_non_member',
(int) 19 => 'message_send_private',
(int) 20 => 'chat_allow_chat',
(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
(int) 17 => 'attachment_download',
(int) 18 => 'message_send_non_member',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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helpers => array()
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tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
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(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'page_id' => '69',
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'attribs' => null,
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'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
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),
'children' => array()
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'role_access' => null,
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'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
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'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
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'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
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'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'remove_pwa_success' => 'Remove from pwas list successfully.'
)
initJs => array(
(int) 0 => '$( document ).ready(function() {
$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
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(int) 4 => 'zip',
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(int) 7 => 'doc',
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bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
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(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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uuids => array()
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response => object(CakeResponse) {}
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
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(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
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(int) 13 => 'disabled',
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(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
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),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
(int) 17 => 'attachment_download',
(int) 18 => 'message_send_non_member',
(int) 19 => 'message_send_private',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
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),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
00000000Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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)
),
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
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),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
(int) 17 => 'attachment_download',
(int) 18 => 'message_send_non_member',
(int) 19 => 'message_send_private',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
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),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
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)
),
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'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
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),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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(int) 7 => 'event_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
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$uid = null
$role_id = (int) 3
$redirect_url = 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt'
$cuser = array()
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settings => array(
'theme_key' => 'Default'
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fieldset => array()
tags => array()
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[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
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(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
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(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
$isThemeDarkMode = false
$theme_enable_appearance = true
$current_theme = 'default'
$site_rtl = false
$site_langs = array(
'eng' => 'English'
)
$site_themes = array(
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'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
'purple1' => 'Purple Theme',
'redroom' => 'Red Theme',
'blue1' => 'Blue Theme',
'green1' => 'Green Theme'
)
$mooFooter = array(
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'attribs' => null,
'lft' => '283',
'rght' => '288',
'column' => false,
'core_block_id' => '0',
'core_content_count' => '2',
'invisible' => '0',
'core_block_title' => '',
'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
'locale' => 'eng'
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'Children' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
'nameTranslation' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooHeader = array(
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'attribs' => null,
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'column' => false,
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'plugin' => null,
'role_access' => null,
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'Children' => array(),
'nameTranslation' => array(
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'children' => array()
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$mooPage = array()
$accepted_cookie = null
$appAccessToken = ''
$isMobile = false
$file_max_upload = '1024M'
$data_type = 'Topic_Topic'
$data_id = null
$myReaction = false
$element_id = 'Topic_Topic'
$element_prefix = 'item-'
$class = 'item-reaction-review'
$moo_view = object(MooView) {
ngController => false
components => array(
(int) 0 => 'RequestHandler'
)
manualLoadingLayout => false
location => ''
here => 'search.hashtags'
isLandingPage => false
isEnableRequirejs => true
phraseJs => array(
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'tag_photo' => 'Tag Photo',
'are_you_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_album_all_photos_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this album?<br />All photos will also be deleted!',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_video' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'january' => 'January',
'february' => 'February',
'march' => 'March',
'april' => 'April',
'may' => 'May',
'june' => 'June',
'july' => 'July',
'august' => 'August',
'september' => 'September',
'october' => 'October',
'november' => 'November',
'december' => 'December',
'jan' => 'Jan',
'feb' => 'Feb',
'mar' => 'Mar',
'apr' => 'Apr',
'jun' => 'Jun',
'jul' => 'Jul',
'aug' => 'Aug',
'sep' => 'Sep',
'oct' => 'Oct',
'nov' => 'Nov',
'dec' => 'Dec',
'sunday' => 'Sunday',
'monday' => 'Monday',
'tuesday' => 'Tuesday',
'wednesday' => 'Wednesday',
'thursday' => 'Thursday',
'friday' => 'Friday',
'saturday' => 'Saturday',
'sun' => 'Sun',
'mon' => 'Mon',
'tue' => 'Tue',
'wed' => 'Wed',
'thu' => 'Thu',
'fri' => 'Fri',
'sat' => 'Sat',
'today' => 'Today',
'clear' => 'Clear',
'close' => 'Close',
'to_date_must_be_greater_than_from_date' => 'To date must be greater than From date',
'to_time_must_be_greater_than_from_time' => 'To time must be greater than From time',
'enter_a_friend_s_name' => 'Enter a friend's name',
'no_results' => 'No results found',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_event' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this event?',
'span_drag_or_span_click_here_to_upload_files' => '<span>Drag or </span>click here to upload files',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo_attachment' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo or attachment',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this topic?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_entry' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this entry?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_member' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_demote_this_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to demote this group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_make_this_member_a_group_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to make this member a group admin?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
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)
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$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
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(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
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(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
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(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
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flashMessage => ''
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passedArgs => array(
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
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),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
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[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
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'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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),
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ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
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cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
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'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
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MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
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(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
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(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
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(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
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[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
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helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
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(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
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(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
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(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 128]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp'
$dataForView = array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
'topics' => array(
'header' => 'Topics',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Topic.search/search_hashtags'
),
'blogs' => array(
'header' => 'Blogs',
'icon_class' => 'library_books',
'view' => 'Blog.search/search_hashtags'
),
'forum_topics' => array(
'header' => 'Forums',
'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
),
'documents' => array(
'header' => 'Documents',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Document.search/search_hashtag'
),
'elearnings' => array(
'header' => 'Courses',
'icon_class' => 'book',
'view' => 'Elearning.search/search_hashtags'
)
),
'courses' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ElearningCourse' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'documents' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Document' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'DocumentLicense' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'topics' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'ForumTopic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'blogs' => array(
(int) 0 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 1 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 2 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 3 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
),
(int) 4 => array(
'Blog' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Category' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
(int) 0 => 'activity_view',
(int) 1 => 'user_username',
(int) 2 => 'blog_view',
(int) 3 => 'blog_create',
(int) 4 => 'album_create',
(int) 5 => 'album_view',
(int) 6 => 'event_create',
(int) 7 => 'event_view',
(int) 8 => 'group_create',
(int) 9 => 'group_view',
(int) 10 => 'photo_upload',
(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
(int) 12 => 'topic_view',
(int) 13 => 'video_share',
(int) 14 => 'video_view',
(int) 15 => 'video_upload',
(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
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<p>======================</p>
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<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 130
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 130]
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 130
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
/
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 130]
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
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<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 133]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
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<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 138
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 138]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
/
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 138]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
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<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
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<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
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<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
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<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>It is not an extensive guide, and attending local events, classes and doing research across different resources is important. You must always have consent and safety in mind, and never do anything that you are not sure about or do not know how to do properly. </div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
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<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
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<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
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<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
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<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: LastPoster [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 79]
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
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<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
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<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
on January 01 1970 at 12:00 AM
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_leave_this_group' => 'Are you sure you want to leave this group?',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_group_br_all_group_contents_will_also_be_deleted' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this group?<br />All group contents will also be deleted!',
'you_have_to_agree_with_term_of_service_for_group' => 'You have to agree with term of service for group',
'remove_bookmark' => 'Remove Bookmark',
'add_bookmark' => 'Add Bookmark',
'bookmark' => 'Bookmark',
'unbookmark' => 'Remove bookmark',
'add_bookmark_success' => 'Add to bookmark list successfully.',
'remove_bookmark_success' => 'Remove from bookmarks list successfully.',
'sending_request' => 'Sending Request',
'please_select_at_least_one_friend_to_invite' => 'Please select at least one friend to invite',
'drag_or_click_here_to_upload_file' => 'Drag or click here to upload a CSV file',
'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite' => 'You have exceeded the maximum number of people you can invite',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'magic_page_drag_or_click_here_to_upload_video' => 'Drag or click here to upload video (.mp4)',
'no_more_results' => 'No more results found',
'alert' => 'Alert',
'delete_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this poll?',
'close_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to close this poll?',
'open_poll_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to open this poll?',
'min_answer' => 'You must have a minimum of 2 answers',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_change_privacy_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to change the privacy of this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_relationship' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this relationship?',
'relationship_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'relationship_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'relationship_send_request' => 'Send Request',
'relationship_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'relationship_save' => 'Save',
'relationship_ok' => 'Ok',
'text_confirm_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'text_please_select' => 'Please select an item',
'STICKER_IMAGE_EXTENSION' => 'jpg,jpeg,png,gif',
'sticker_animation_interval' => '100',
'sticker_is_android' => false,
'sticker_is_mobile' => false,
'sticker_enabled' => '0',
'upload_video_phrase_0' => 'The video in your post is being processed. We will send you a notification when it is done.',
'upload_video_phrase_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'upload_video_phrase_2' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'upload_video_phrase_3' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'upload_video_phrase_4' => 'Processing Video',
'delete_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_viewer_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'viewed_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'viewed_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_REVIEW' => 'business-reviews',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PHOTO' => 'business-photos',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_PRODUCT' => 'business-products',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_JOB' => 'business-jobs',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_BRANCH' => 'business-branches',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_CHECKIN' => 'business-checkin',
'BUSINESS_DETAIL_LINK_FOLLOWER' => 'business-follower',
'business_text_show_map' => 'Show map',
'business_text_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'business_text_confirm_remove_admin' => 'Are you sure you want to remove?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_review' => 'Are you sure you want to delete your review?',
'confirm' => 'Confirm',
'remove_tags' => 'Remove Tags',
'remove_tags_contents' => 'You wont be tagged in this post anymore. It may appear in other places like New Feed or search.',
'ok' => 'Ok',
'cancel' => 'Cancel',
'please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'please_confirm_remove_this_activity' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this activity?',
'tmaxsize' => 'Can not upload file more than 100MB',
'tdesc' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'business_upload_document_drag' => 'Drag or click here to upload documents',
'sizeLimit' => (int) 104857600,
'text_maximum_document' => 'Maximum number documents for verification request is 5',
'business_text_confirm_approve_business' => 'Are your sure you want to approve this business?',
'business_text_confirm_vefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to verify this business?',
'business_text_confirm_unvefiry_business' => 'Are your sure you want to unverify this business?',
'business_text_show_reviews' => 'Show reviews',
'business_text_hide_reviews' => 'Hide reviews',
'business_text_no_reviews' => 'No reviews found',
'business_text_confirm_remove_business' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this business?',
'business_text_confirm_remove_branch' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this branch?',
'business_text_claim_review' => 'Are you sure you want to accept this claim request? Products link to this business if any will be removed after this action is done!',
'business_text_claim_reject' => 'Are you sure you want to reject this claim request?',
'business_text_claim_remove' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this claim request?',
'business_text_characters_remaining' => 'Characters remaining:',
'business_text_unban' => 'Un-ban',
'business_text_ban' => 'Ban',
'business_text_confirm_remove_favourite' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this favourite business?',
'business_text_confirm_unfollow' => 'Are you sure you want to unfollow this business?',
'business_create_select2' => 'Enter to create category',
'business_create_select2_placeholder' => 'Add new a category',
'business_allow_member_add_category' => '0',
'business_username_placeholder' => 'User name ...',
'subscribe' => 'Subscribe',
'subscribed' => 'Unsubscribe',
'drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'drag_file' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'delete' => 'Delete',
'lock' => 'Lock',
'open' => 'Open',
'this_forum_is_marked_as_locked_for_new_topic' => 'This forum is marked as locked for new topic',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpin_this_topic' => 'Are you sure you wan to unpin this topic?',
'day_numeric' => 'Day only allow numbers',
'day_required' => 'Day is required',
'you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'expiry_month' => 'Expiry month is incorrect',
'expiry_year' => 'Expiry year is incorrect',
'error_cardholdername' => 'Card Name is required and must be from 6 to 70 characters',
'error_number' => 'Please enter a valid credit card number',
'error_cvc' => 'Please enter cvc',
'quiz_hours' => 'hours',
'quiz_minutes' => 'minutes',
'quiz_seconds' => 'seconds',
'quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'quiz_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'advanced_search' => 'Advanced search',
'basic_search' => 'Basic search',
'found' => 'Found',
'member' => 'member',
'members' => 'members',
'are_you_sure_want_to_delete_this_item' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this item?',
'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
'delete_document_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this document?',
'matchmakings_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'matchmaking_show_map' => 'Show map',
'matchmaking_hide_map' => 'Hide map',
'matchmakings_request_sent' => 'Request sent!',
'matchmakings_age_warning' => 'Age To must be greater than or equal to Age From!',
'delete_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this member from list?',
'delete_all_meeter_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove all members from list?',
'min_age_invalid' => 'Min age must me a number',
'max_age_invalid' => 'Max age must me a number',
'feedlist_text_empty_list_item' => 'List values cannot be empty',
'feedlist_are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete' => 'Are you sure you want to delete?',
'feedlist_you_must_select_at_least_an_item' => 'You must select at least an item',
'feedlist_show_more' => 'Show more',
'feedlist_show_less' => 'Show less',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_BULLETED' => 'bulleted',
'FEEDLIST_OPTION_TYPE_NUMBERED' => 'numbered',
'feedlist_is_android' => false,
'shoutbox_duplicate_text' => 'Please remove duplicate widget on this page',
'shoutbox_like_text' => 'Like',
'shoutbox_likes_text' => 'Likes',
'shoutbox_quote_text' => 'Quote',
'shoutbox_edit_text' => 'Edit',
'shoutbox_delete_text' => 'Delete',
'shoutbox_empty_text' => 'Type something to chat',
'shoutbox_spam_text' => 'You are typing too fast',
'shoutbox_delete_confirm_text' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this message ?',
'shoutbox_fetch_message_interval' => '5',
'shoutbox_send_message_time' => '4',
'are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_campaign' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this campaign?',
'terms_and_conditions' => 'Terms and conditions',
'delete_recipe_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this recipe?',
'delete_video_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this video?',
'delete_photo_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this photo?',
'ads_currency_symbol' => null,
'ads_day' => 'day',
'ads_days' => 'days',
'ads_click_to_upload' => 'Click to upload',
'ads_can_not_upload_file_more_than' => 'Can not upload file more than 104857600',
'music_drag_photo' => 'Drag or click here to upload photo',
'music_add_to_favorite' => 'Add to Favorite',
'music_remove_from_favorite' => 'Remove from Favorite',
'music_ratings' => 'Your rate',
'music_total_ratings' => 'Total rate',
'facebook' => 'facebook',
'twitter' => 'twitter',
'validate_between' => 'Withdraw amount must between Maximum and Minimum',
'credit_amount_not_enought' => 'You do not have enough credit to post, please earn more credits to continue!',
'feeling_text_button_wall' => 'Feelings',
'feeling_text_choose_feeling' => 'Choose a feelings...',
'feeling_text_choose_item' => 'Choose a item',
'status_background_select_background' => 'Select background',
'PRIVACY_EVERYONE' => (int) 1,
'PRIVACY_FRIENDS' => (int) 2,
'ACTIVITY_WAITING' => 'waiting',
'txt_news_feed' => 'News feed',
'txt_your_story' => 'Your Story',
'post_story_success' => 'Added to your story',
'are_you_delete_story' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this story ?',
'share_what_new' => 'Share what's new',
'add_to_your_story' => 'Add to your story',
'delete_question_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this question?',
'elearning_drag_ok_click_here_to_upload_files' => 'Drag or click here to attach/upload files',
'uv_1' => 'Your video is uploaded successfully, please standby while we converting your video.',
'uv_3' => 'Drag or click here to upload video',
'uv_4' => 'Please select video to upload.',
'public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to publish this course?',
'un_public_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this course?',
'delete_course_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this course?',
'delete_lesson_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this lesson?',
'elearning_quiz_confirm' => 'Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'elearning_quiz_please_confirm' => 'Please Confirm',
'elearning_quiz_thank_you_for_taking_our_quiz' => 'Thank you for taking our quiz!',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'elearning_quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'elearning_quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
'elearning_mark_complete_lesson' => 'Are you sure you already completed this lesson/topic?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_review' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this review?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_reply' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this reply?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_disable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to disable rating?',
'review_are_you_sure_you_want_to_enable_rating' => 'Are you sure you want to enable rating?',
'review_cancel' => 'Cancel',
'remove_pwa_success' => 'Remove from pwas list successfully.'
)
initJs => array(
(int) 0 => '$( document ).ready(function() {
$("body" ).append($('<div id="ScrollToTop" class="ScrollToTop_Global ScrollToTop_Style_1"><span>Back To Top</span></div>'));
jQuery(window).scroll(function()
{
if(jQuery(this).scrollTop() > 20)
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeIn("slow");
else
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").fadeOut("slow");
return false;
});
jQuery("#ScrollToTop").click(function (){
jQuery("body, html").animate({scrollTop:0}, 500, "linear");
});
});'
)
fileJs => array()
sizeLimit => (int) 104857600
videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
isMobile => false
photoExt => array(
(int) 0 => 'jpg',
(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
(int) 2 => 'png',
(int) 3 => 'gif'
)
videoExt => array(
(int) 0 => 'flv',
(int) 1 => 'mp4',
(int) 2 => 'wmv',
(int) 3 => '3gp',
(int) 4 => 'mov',
(int) 5 => 'avi'
)
attachmentExt => array(
(int) 0 => 'jpg',
(int) 1 => 'jpeg',
(int) 2 => 'png',
(int) 3 => 'gif',
(int) 4 => 'zip',
(int) 5 => 'txt',
(int) 6 => 'pdf',
(int) 7 => 'doc',
(int) 8 => 'docx'
)
bodyClass => array()
fonts => array()
bodyParams => array()
enableDarkMode => true
flashMessage => ''
Helpers => object(HelperCollection) {}
Blocks => object(ViewBlock) {}
plugin => null
name => 'Search'
passedArgs => array(
(int) 0 => 'bdsm'
)
helpers => array(
'Html' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 0 => 'Text',
'Form' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 1 => 'Session',
'Time' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 2 => 'Moo',
(int) 3 => 'Menu.Menu',
(int) 4 => 'MooGMap',
'Text' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
(int) 5 => 'MooPeople',
(int) 6 => 'MooTranslate',
(int) 7 => 'MooPhoto',
(int) 8 => 'MooTime',
(int) 9 => 'MooActivity',
(int) 10 => 'MooPopup',
(int) 11 => 'MooRequirejs',
(int) 12 => 'Minify.Minify',
(int) 13 => 'Storage.Storage'
)
viewPath => 'Search'
viewVars => array(
'allow_main_menu' => true,
'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'bdsm',
'type' => 'all',
'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'comments' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'other_suggestion' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'courses' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'documents' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'topics' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'blogs' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
'uacos' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'uid' => null,
'role_id' => (int) 3,
'redirect_url' => 'aHR0cHM6Ly9kZW1vLmFsdGxpZmUuY29tbXVuaXR5L3NlYXJjaC9oYXNodGFncy9iZHNt',
'cuser' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'CurrentThemeHelper' => object(ThemeDefaultHelper) {},
'isThemeDarkMode' => false,
'theme_enable_appearance' => true,
'current_theme' => 'default',
'site_rtl' => false,
'site_langs' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'site_themes' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'mooFooter' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'mooHeader' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'mooPage' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'accepted_cookie' => null,
'appAccessToken' => '',
'isMobile' => false,
'file_max_upload' => '1024M'
)
view => 'hashtags'
layout => 'default'
layoutPath => null
autoLayout => true
ext => '.ctp'
subDir => null
theme => 'default'
cacheAction => false
validationErrors => array(
'Setting' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Mailtemplate' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'I18nModel' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'User' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Mailrecipient' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Session' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Language' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'ProfileType' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Theme' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Page' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'MyCoreTheme' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'CoreContent' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'titleTranslation' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'contentTranslation' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'CoreBlock' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Livevideo' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Plugin' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'IpBlock' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Activity' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'ActivityComment' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Comment' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Hashtag' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Video' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Tag' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Friend' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'UserBlock' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Category' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Group' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Event' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Topic' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'LastPoster' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Role' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'nameTranslation' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'GroupUser' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Like' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Blog' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Feedback' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'FeedbackStatus' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'FeedbackCategory' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'FeedbackSeverity' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Poll' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'HashTag' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Business' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'BusinessLocation' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'ForumTopic' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'LastPost' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Forum' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Quiz' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Gift' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'GiftCategory' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'GiftFriend' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Document' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'DocumentLicense' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Campaign' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'LastDonor' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Recipe' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'RecipeCategories' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'MusicSong' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'MusicAlbum' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Question' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'ElearningCourse' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'UserSettingFeed' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'UserTagging' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'Subscribe' => array([maximum depth reached]),
'VerifyProfile' => array([maximum depth reached])
)
hasRendered => false
uuids => array()
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
response => object(CakeResponse) {}
elementCache => 'default'
elementCacheSettings => array()
Html => object(MooHtmlHelper) {}
Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
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[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
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$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
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'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
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'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
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)
helpers => array([maximum depth reached])
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
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fieldset => array([maximum depth reached])
tags => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _helperMap => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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)
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)
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),
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)
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components => array(
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)
manualLoadingLayout => false
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)
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)
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videoExt => array(
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attachmentExt => array(
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bodyParams => array([maximum depth reached])
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helpers => array(
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)
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
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'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
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'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
00000000Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
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'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
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'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
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'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
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'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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)
$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
)
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
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'icon_class' => 'forum',
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settings => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
helpers => array([maximum depth reached])
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
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fieldset => array([maximum depth reached])
tags => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _helperMap => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
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)
[protected] _modelScope => null
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)
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'nameTranslation' => array(
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),
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)
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components => array(
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)
manualLoadingLayout => false
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)
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)
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videoMaxUpload => (int) 209715200
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videoExt => array(
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attachmentExt => array(
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)
bodyClass => array([maximum depth reached])
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bodyParams => array([maximum depth reached])
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helpers => array(
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)
viewPath => 'Search'
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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$request_base = ''
$priorityReView = array(
(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
(int) 7 => 'cool'
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'are_you_sure_you_want_to_delete_this_photo' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this photo ?',
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'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_unpublish_this_quiz' => 'Are you sure you want to un-publish this quiz?',
'quiz_are_you_sure_you_want_to_remove_this_question' => 'Are you sure you want to remove this question?',
'quiz_you_are_not_finish_all_question_are_you_sure_you_want_to_submit_your_answers' => 'You are not finished all questions. Are you sure you want to submit your answers?',
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'delete_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to delete this gift?',
'send_gift_confirm' => 'Are you sure you want to send this gift now?',
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elementCacheSettings => array()
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Text => object(MooTextHelper) {}
Form => object(MooFormHelper) {}
Session => object(SessionHelper) {}
Time => object(AppTimeHelper) {}
Moo => object(MooHelper) {}
Menu => object(MenuHelper) {}
MooGMap => object(MooGMapHelper) {}
MooPeople => object(MooPeopleHelper) {}
MooTranslate => object(MooTranslateHelper) {}
MooPhoto => object(MooPhotoHelper) {}
MooTime => object(MooTimeHelper) {}
MooActivity => object(MooActivityHelper) {}
MooPopup => object(MooPopupHelper) {}
MooRequirejs => object(MooRequirejsHelper) {}
Minify => object(MinifyHelper) {}
Storage => object(StorageHelper) {}
[protected] _passedVars => array(
(int) 0 => 'viewVars',
(int) 1 => 'autoLayout',
(int) 2 => 'ext',
(int) 3 => 'helpers',
(int) 4 => 'view',
(int) 5 => 'layout',
(int) 6 => 'name',
(int) 7 => 'theme',
(int) 8 => 'layoutPath',
(int) 9 => 'viewPath',
(int) 10 => 'request',
(int) 11 => 'plugin',
(int) 12 => 'passedArgs',
(int) 13 => 'cacheAction'
)
[protected] _scripts => array()
[protected] _paths => array(
(int) 0 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/Themed/Default/',
(int) 1 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/View/',
(int) 2 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/View/',
(int) 3 => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/lib/Cake/Console/Templates/skel/View/'
)
[protected] _pathsForPlugin => array(
'Menu' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Reaction' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Topic' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
[protected] _parents => array()
[protected] _current => '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp'
[protected] _currentType => 'element'
[protected] _stack => array()
[protected] _eventManager => object(CakeEventManager) {}
[protected] _eventManagerConfigured => true
[private] _currentStyle => (int) 0
[private] isNorthEmpty => true
[private] isWestEmpty => false
[private] isCenterEmpty => true
[private] isEastEmpty => true
[private] isSouthEmpty => true
[private] _currentStyleIsSet => false
[private] _pageId => ''
[private] isAllowed => true
}
$reaction_helper = object(ReactionHelper) {
settings => array()
helpers => array()
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array()
tags => array()
[protected] _helperMap => array()
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
(int) 0 => 'year',
(int) 1 => 'month',
(int) 2 => 'day',
(int) 3 => 'hour',
(int) 4 => 'min',
(int) 5 => 'second',
(int) 6 => 'meridian'
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
(int) 0 => 'allowfullscreen',
(int) 1 => 'async',
(int) 2 => 'autofocus',
(int) 3 => 'autoplay',
(int) 4 => 'checked',
(int) 5 => 'compact',
(int) 6 => 'controls',
(int) 7 => 'declare',
(int) 8 => 'default',
(int) 9 => 'defaultchecked',
(int) 10 => 'defaultmuted',
(int) 11 => 'defaultselected',
(int) 12 => 'defer',
(int) 13 => 'disabled',
(int) 14 => 'enabled',
(int) 15 => 'formnovalidate',
(int) 16 => 'hidden',
(int) 17 => 'indeterminate',
(int) 18 => 'inert',
(int) 19 => 'ismap',
(int) 20 => 'itemscope',
(int) 21 => 'loop',
(int) 22 => 'multiple',
(int) 23 => 'muted',
(int) 24 => 'nohref',
(int) 25 => 'noresize',
(int) 26 => 'noshade',
(int) 27 => 'novalidate',
(int) 28 => 'nowrap',
(int) 29 => 'open',
(int) 30 => 'pauseonexit',
(int) 31 => 'readonly',
(int) 32 => 'required',
(int) 33 => 'reversed',
(int) 34 => 'scoped',
(int) 35 => 'seamless',
(int) 36 => 'selected',
(int) 37 => 'sortable',
(int) 38 => 'spellcheck',
(int) 39 => 'truespeed',
(int) 40 => 'typemustmatch',
(int) 41 => 'visible'
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
}
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(int) 0 => 'dislike',
(int) 1 => 'like',
(int) 2 => 'love',
(int) 3 => 'haha',
(int) 4 => 'wow',
(int) 5 => 'sad',
(int) 6 => 'angry',
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include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 128]
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
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<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 128
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
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<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
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<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
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<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
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<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
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<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 130]
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
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<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
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<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
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<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 138]
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
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<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
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<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
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<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
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<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
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<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 138]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
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<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
<div> </div>
<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<div>Which is a scary thought.</div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
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<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
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<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
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<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
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<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
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<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
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<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
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<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
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<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div>
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<div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div>
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<div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div>
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<div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div>
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<div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div>
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<div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div>
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<div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div>
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<div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. Which, unless they start critically thinking and researching themselves, will result in them disseminating inaccurate and misinformed information to the next generation of kinksters. </div>
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<p><strong>Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Lets start with the more difficult ones to deal with:</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Consider these punishment play I’ll also toss in the ones that take a few days or even a week of fun to get through. These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p>
<p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p>
<p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p>
<p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p>
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<p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p>
<p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>=======================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p>
<p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p>
<p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>====================================</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p>
<p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p>
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<p> </p>
<p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p>
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<div>This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.</div>
<div>=============================</div>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy smiled at her set up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">In all honesty it wasn’t much but it would be more than enough to satisfy the need that had clawed the back of her mind for weeks now.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The chair was a simple but solid wooden one with bars as part of the back rest and wide flat arms that reached round in a gentle arch. Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p>
<p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p>
<p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Fut…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p>
<p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p>
<p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="center"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p>
<p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p>
<p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p>
<p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. She hesitated then pulled her hands gently free and away from her face, tugging her breasts back into the bra.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">“Did you have fun?”</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Standing slowly and stretching she turned to her friend and nodded slowly, already plotting her next attempt as she was led out of the room.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
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'body' => '<div>The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div>
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<div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div>
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<div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div>
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<div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div>
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<div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div>
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<div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. Here are OUR 10 commandments.</div>',
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<p>I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p>
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<p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p>
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<p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p>
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<p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p>
<p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p>
<p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p>
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<p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p>
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<p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p>
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<p>“Well, look what I found.”</p>
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<p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p>
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<p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p>
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<p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p>
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<p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p>
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<p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p>
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<p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p>
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<p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. It wasn’t enough to get off from the toy – anyone else I would have turned it off but I knew she got a small kick from the torment.</p>
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<p>Her collar was next, followed by her elbows, I freed her wrists last and she slowly reached between her legs to the toy. I didn’t stop her but she hesitated, shaking and groaning as a final climax pushed through her.</p>
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<p>I moved away and sat on the bed, she slowly removed the ring gag and blindfold.</p>
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<p>She looked at me, embarrassment clear.</p>
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<p>“Thank you.” She managed after a long moment.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>“Your welcome, do you need anything? I can provide some after care if you need it?”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>She smiled and shook her head.</p>
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<p>“I’ll be fine in a few, just getting my legs back. We can talk later about your pay.”</p>
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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Posted by AnnaKink on January 18 2023 at 04:11 PM
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A come across a TikTok today from one of my favourite mutuals who does great education. I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original ...
Let me tell you a thing, all the little things I want to write, all the saucy little tales that I really want to get too.
======================
Lets start with the more difficult ones to...
This tale contains: First time, Self Bondage, Tape Gag, Stuck, Caught, Vibrator, Orgasm.
=============================
Cindy smiled at her set up.
In all honesty it wasn’t much but it wo...
The last several months I have been reflecting on my very religious up brining. Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself i...
I smiled at the dishevelled woman grunting on the chair, her hair plastered over her face having come loose from the pony tail it had obviously been in at the start of her misadventure. I’d gotte...
Posted by AnnaKink on January 29 2023 at 02:35 PM
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This is a free resource and provides an introduction to red flags and vetting in BDSM. It is not an comprehensive document and should be treated as an additional resource to be used to learn about ...
Posted by AnnaKink on January 29 2023 at 12:51 PM
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This an introductory guide to impact play and provides basic information about risk management, safety, aftercare and tools for impact play.
This guide does not replace IRL and Online tutorial...
Posted by AnnaKink on January 23 2023 at 05:20 PM
public
If you are new to the lifestyle or interested in being a Top or Dominant for a scene or in a dynamic, here is our starting Guide on introducing dynamic play in the bedroom.
It is not an extens...
Posted by AnnaKink on September 12 2022 at 07:15 PM
Price: $0.00
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It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices. There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent. But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. 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We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p> </div>', 'search_desc' => 'This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here. I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts. I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such. If I have this correct: Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more? The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct? Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net. 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I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div> <div> </div> <div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div> <div> </div> <div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div> <div> </div> <div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div> <div> </div> <div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div> <div> </div> <div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div> <div> </div> <div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div> <div> </div> <div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div> <div> </div> <div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div> <div> </div> <div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div> <div> </div> <div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div> <div> </div> <div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. 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These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p> <p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p> <p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p> <p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p> <p> </p> <p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p> <p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>=======================</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p> <p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p> <p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>====================================</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p> <p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p> </div>', 'thumbnail' => '', 'created' => '2022-10-16 21:33:37', 'like_count' => '1', 'privacy' => '1', 'comment_count' => '0', 'share_count' => '0', 'dislike_count' => '0', 'new_comment' => '0', 'moo_title' => 'Thoughts for writing, welcome to the Gutter.', 'moo_href' => '/blogs/view/26/thoughts-for-writing-welcome-to-the-gutter', 'moo_plugin' => 'Blog', 'moo_type' => 'Blog_Blog', 'moo_url' => '/blogs/view/26/thoughts-for-writing-welcome-to-the-gutter', 'moo_thumb' => 'thumbnail', 'moo_privacy' => '1' ), 'User' => array( 'password' => '*****', 'id' => '144', 'first_verify' => true, 'has_sub_free' => true, 'name' => 'Grimmhelm', 'email' => 'grimmhelm@googlemail.com', 'salt' => 'dbf0', 'role_id' => '3', 'avatar' => '7e6193034dec6d58d65bd344072ee7c1.jpg', 'photo' => '', 'created' => '2022-06-23 20:32:45', 'last_login' => '2022-12-30 10:11:25', 'photo_count' => '14', 'friend_count' => '3', 'notification_count' => '36', 'friend_request_count' => '0', 'blog_count' => '7', 'topic_count' => '0', 'group_count' => '0', 'event_count' => '0', 'conversation_user_count' => '0', 'video_count' => '0', 'gender' => '1', 'birthday' => '1985-11-14', 'active' => true, 'confirmed' => true, 'code' => '7a33046622b44d285d55eae63d69dc4e', 'expired_time_code' => null, 'notification_email' => true, 'timezone' => 'Europe/London', 'ip_address' => '86.178.26.3', 'privacy' => '1', 'username' => 'Grimmhelm', 'about' => 'Kinky brit, looking to make some friends. 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Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p> <p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p> <p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Fut…”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p> <p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p> <p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p> <p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p> <p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p> <p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. 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Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div> <div> </div> <div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div> <div> </div> <div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div> <div> </div> <div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div> <div> </div> <div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div> <div> </div> <div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. 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I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p> <p> </p> <p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p> <p> </p> <p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p> <p> </p> <p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p> <p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p> <p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. 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But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div> <div> </div> <div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div> <div> </div> <div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. 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It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices. There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent. But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. 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We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p> </div>', 'search_desc' => 'This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here. I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts. I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such. If I have this correct: Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more? The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct? Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net. 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I followed the comment thread of their video replies until I found offending users comments on an original video about Topping from the bottom. </div> <div> </div> <div>Here we had a baby-kinkster (someone just legal in age) arguing about why an experienced and vetted educator was wrong in using the terminology Top/bottom. Their comments went on to explain the following:</div> <div> </div> <div><em>D/s is for dynamic relationships and Top/bottom are only for sexual acts.....</em></div> <div> </div> <div><em>❌ we can see why this isn't accurate right off the bat❌</em></div> <div> </div> <div>This educator then continued to respond to them - a perfect teaching moment for someone who is new to the community and lifestyle and may still be learning. But no, this baby kinkster continued to say this educator was wrong and their "mentor" had given them this information and they have been in lifestyle for years. Which then begs the question, how well educated is their mentor really?</div> <div> </div> <div>Top/bottom is really a catch all term - as was pointed out to this baby-kinkster, someone in a sadomasochist scene or even a M/s dynamic can top a bottom without sex being involved. And from an educational perspective, most people do use Top/bottom when referring to scenes where there is no ongoing dynamic, but that does not invalidate a Dominant being a Top and a submissive being the bottom, in a dynamic (see how they can still be interchangeable). But Top/bottom is definitely not exclusive to sexual scenes which this baby-kinkster was adamant about. </div> <div> </div> <div>Which raised my first redflag about the information they had been given - specifically that dynamics are not sexual and if your not in a dynamic then it can only be sexual play? Which is very concerning, because it sounds like this baby-kinkster is being groomed.</div> <div> </div> <div>They continued to push that they were right because that's how they had learned it. There was no critical thinking, there was no "adult" discussion about where they genuinely got this information from or whether maybe they had been taught incorrectly - they were blindly following whatever this mentor said to them - again alarm bells that they are being groomed here. </div> <div> </div> <div><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e03e2d;"><strong>And this is the crux of the problem</strong></span> - education is not a once off. Education is not from one person. It is important to verify information you are given, speak to other people, research yourself. <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #e03e2d; text-decoration: underline;">DO NOT</span></span></strong> blindly follow what one person has told you because they have been in the lifestyle for X number of years. </div> <div> </div> <div>For baby-kinksters this is extremely important because whether you are 21 or 51 or 78 and new to the lifestyle, make sure you vet your sources, vet the information you are being given, do some of your own research, because there are unfortunately people out there who do provide inaccurate and misinformation. The unfortunate part is, that narcissists and abusers prey on baby-kinksters, because they tend to be easier to manipulate. </div> <div> </div> <div>So being confident in knowing the basics around: consent, negotiation, limits, research etc is going to be important. We should all still be learning and growing, regardless of how long we have been in the lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise or purports to "know everything" is a redlfag. </div> <div> </div> <div>My concern with this baby-kinkster is that they have found themselves in an unhealthy situation where they are being fed inaccurate information, being misinformed by someone which could lead them to having an extremely bad experience in the lifestyle, and because they are being groomed, and probably groomed from a teen, they are believing that whoever is mentoring them is correct. And they are so ingrained in this information they have been given that they are not receptive to hearing other educators correct the misinformation. 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These tend to be a little more on the CNC side of things just with how long they go on for.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>The first is also one of the harder ones to do.</p> <p>Go camping with a subby little slut, have her masturbate for me as I record her out in the wilderness. Tie her to some trees and spank, crop and flog her before making her orgasm for others to hear out in the wilderness.</p> <p>Maybe bring friends and have a good time around the camp fire.</p> <p>A few days (maybe a weekend) away to a somewhat remote cabin or holiday home, bring along a couple of lovely ladies outnumbered by the guys who come along meaning there is more than enough to go around if they don’t mind sharing a toy. Keep them bound in separate rooms, toyed with and played with over a weekend, come Monday they will be dazed and used toys.</p> <p> </p> <p>Similar to the above but instead of a few girls just bring one along, poor thing is going to be a mess by the time all those men are done with her. A whole house to drag her through and abuse her in so many different ways.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A little game I call ‘No fun for you’. A few people playing with the bound toy, teasing and screwing her, however she doesn’t get to enjoy her release and climax – choked out each time she’s about to go over that edge and made to cum in the subspace between half passed out and aware. Feeling the come down and throb of her sex but none of the fun that comes with it as she comes too.</p> <p>The fun doesn’t end with just one, she’s just a fun sleeve to mess with who’s not allowed to enjoy her reward.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two bound toys already played with for a long while and nearly done for the day, pulled into a long room or corridor, a bag of toys at the other end of the stretch – the first one to get to it will be somewhat released and use the content on the loser who will become the fuck toy the rest of the evening.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>=======================</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Now some that can be done over the course of an evening. Still fun but can be just as intense as any of the others depending on how there done.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Take a sub to dinner rigged with toys, all locked in place. Perhaps some hidden bondage thrown into the mix just to make it all the more tickling to us both. Tell her to act normal as she’s played with and teased throughout the evening although I could also change this up by inviting a friend who would have the remote handed off too and just watch the unfolding show over dinner.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Tie the sub tightly by the door a ring gag and blindfold firmly in place. At that point invite some friends over for a but of fun, revealing her chest and mouth to them to enjoy as they arrive.</p> <p>Or perhaps bent over a chair or table, tied down firmly so they can take their fun one after another.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A small party would be enjoyable just a couple of close friends invited over for the evening. I’d have the sub all tied up in the bedroom, Ether playing with herself or rigged with toys, the door slightly ajar so the guests can just watch her whine and moan, maybe id edge her maybe id set them to high and leave her to the torment.</p> <p>All the while she would know the door is open, hear the guests and know they could peek in at her at any moment.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A date night in, have her bound and almost helpless. An evening of playing video games or watching films. Have the sub sat in your lap, rubbing and pressing, a small toy keeping her groaning quietly throughout the evening. Teased and played with before eventually being impaled with more pleasant things.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>An intense but fun one is being bound and set aside on the ground or in a chair, a toy buzzing away, a blindfold in place. Their not to make a sound, they will be ignored as everyone else gets on with the day, the toy forced to stay quiet in the corner as the toy drives the bound slut to distraction and mistake.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>====================================</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>How bout some challenges, tossing in some good old fashioned fun and games sometimes alone and sometimes between two or three others.</strong></p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two or three other bound up toys, a powerful toy nestled in place or strapped to the thigh. The game is simple but exceptionally difficult. Escape your bondage before the other girls, win and get your choice of who to play with, lose and your the toy for the rest of the weekend. Ether way everyone has fun.</p> <p>-For an additional hard mode (As if this wasn’t hard enough.): If you cum some of the removed bondage gets put back. Still stuck there two hours later? Well enjoy being properly restrained and left for a 3<sup>rd</sup> before your played with.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>One hour challenge. Bound, a strong toy between the subs legs, the game for this is fun and torment all wrapped up into one. Do not cum. Competing with each other for an hour to see who can manage to last.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>Two torments. A fun little one where the sub is put into predicament bondage. When it gets too much she can ask to switch to another torment, but how long until both choices are as bad as each other.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>A long table, like the long dining table in the potter films. Sexy little subs lined up on them, red heads, blonds, brunets, big tits, small tits, all very lovely and waiting for some fun. Blindfolded, bound and gagged – they just wait and see whoever picks them for a bit of fun.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>The porn play is simple and terrible all at once. Load up a selection of your fav porn for an hour or two, throw in a good mix or rough fucking, edging, teasing to spice things up. The poor little sub has to use vibes and other toys to match the scenes – randomize the videos and she could be forced to edge for a long while, or forced to rail herself repeatedly until she wants to scream.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>These are just a few of the stories in my head that I wish to write :]</strong></p> </div>', 'thumbnail' => '', 'created' => '2022-10-16 21:33:37', 'like_count' => '1', 'privacy' => '1', 'comment_count' => '0', 'share_count' => '0', 'dislike_count' => '0', 'new_comment' => '0', 'moo_title' => 'Thoughts for writing, welcome to the Gutter.', 'moo_href' => '/blogs/view/26/thoughts-for-writing-welcome-to-the-gutter', 'moo_plugin' => 'Blog', 'moo_type' => 'Blog_Blog', 'moo_url' => '/blogs/view/26/thoughts-for-writing-welcome-to-the-gutter', 'moo_thumb' => 'thumbnail', 'moo_privacy' => '1' ), 'User' => array( 'password' => '*****', 'id' => '144', 'first_verify' => true, 'has_sub_free' => true, 'name' => 'Grimmhelm', 'email' => 'grimmhelm@googlemail.com', 'salt' => 'dbf0', 'role_id' => '3', 'avatar' => '7e6193034dec6d58d65bd344072ee7c1.jpg', 'photo' => '', 'created' => '2022-06-23 20:32:45', 'last_login' => '2022-12-30 10:11:25', 'photo_count' => '14', 'friend_count' => '3', 'notification_count' => '36', 'friend_request_count' => '0', 'blog_count' => '7', 'topic_count' => '0', 'group_count' => '0', 'event_count' => '0', 'conversation_user_count' => '0', 'video_count' => '0', 'gender' => '1', 'birthday' => '1985-11-14', 'active' => true, 'confirmed' => true, 'code' => '7a33046622b44d285d55eae63d69dc4e', 'expired_time_code' => null, 'notification_email' => true, 'timezone' => 'Europe/London', 'ip_address' => '86.178.26.3', 'privacy' => '1', 'username' => 'Grimmhelm', 'about' => 'Kinky brit, looking to make some friends. 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Beside it upon the small table was a few lengths of rope, a pair of belts a roll of duct tape and her favourite vibrator.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Stripping off her clothing, leaving her in her undergarments and grabbing a small cushion to place on the chair she felt the excitement creep up her spine, she had never done anything like this before but she had watched enough of the videos she found to figure out most of it.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">It had all started when she had been out with a couple of friends shopping for cloths, she had picked up a few things to try on, then passing one of her friends who left the curtain of the changing room open, she saw the leather straps crossing over her body, hugging it tightly. It had started Cindy down a rabbit hole as she searched online for what the straps were, which lead to what they were used for and how they played a part in kink play.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Snatching up the rope Cindy began to slip coils around the bars of the chairs back, tying them just like she had seen them on the tutorial videos, simple loops she could slip her wrists into and a simple tug would close them lightly, the rest of the rope rested in a hoop on the chair seat, it would go around her waist and keep her sat there.</p> <p align="justify">The final coil of rope connected to the wrists and went under the chair, she would tie it off to the shorter belt she planned to use on her ankles, provided everything laid out like she thought it would.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">With a shaky sigh Cindy picked up the vibrator, slipping the panties aside to push it into place she which a slight whine, she was more than ready for it even with the anxiety in the background of her excitement. She moved the belts from the table over to the chair draping them over the arms as she stepped up onto the seat and slipped herself down through the large hoop she had made and got it situated around her waist as she sat.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Starting with her ankles she slipped the smaller of the belts around her ankles, pulling the rope resting at her feet around the strap, pulling it closed around ether ankle. The next belt she pulled closed above her knees keeping her legs firmly pressed together.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Final parts.” she murmured to herself as she picked up the duct tape, she had wanted to try this most of all as she didn’t have any real gags and the cloth ones she had made up really didn’t do anything. “I have a good bit of time left, do things properly.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Taking a small rubber ball she had purchased from the kids section in the super market she pushed it into her mouth and moaned around it. The tape was loud to her as she began to apply it, running strips over he mouth and cheeks, under her chin to help restrict movement. Running her fingers over the tape she tried to push the ball out but found it firmly held in place, she couldn’t easily open her jaw with the tape.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Muffling a pleased sound she tried to moan more but found not only was she quieter than she expected, the ball stopped her forming words easily as it pinned her tongue.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Giggling to herself, Cindy picked up the remote for the vibrator and reached her free hand back around the chair to take hold of her wrist restraints as she scootched the chair forward away from the table and into the middle of the room, reaching her other hand behind the chair she slipped her free hand into one of the loops, pulling her ankles back slightly.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"><em>My wrists are too high, it will pull my ankles off the ground...it should be fine...Let’s get this started, before the others get home.</em></p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Brushing the thought aside, she passed the remote to her bound hand and managed to slip it into the other loop with some effort, pulling her feet up to give her the extra slack she needed to get her hand through.</p> <p align="justify">She let he legs drop and felt the rope tug at her wrists, pulling her firmly back, the cord around her waist also pulling her firmly against the back of the chair making Cindy grunt as the stylised bars of the chair dug into her slightly.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Wiggling her feet she found that her big toes barely brushed the carpet under her.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Grunting lightly as she tugged at her restraints she was pleased with how well it had turned out, she clicked the remote in her hand and felt the toy start up.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Straining in her bonds the blond mock struggled to see just how much she could do in her predicament. Which turned out to be not much, she could shift her legs left and right but couldn’t pull them down, she couldn’t pull forward much with the loop around her stomach, but if she did her legs were pulled up higher which dug into the chair.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">The toy teased nicely for the duration of her struggling but she clicked it twice more, the sound of the toy becoming audible to her as she let out a low groan. She knew it would take six clicks to turn it to full but didn’t want that, it would take her time enough to get herself out of the bondage, but a little fun would be fine.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Hesitating for a moment she clicked it one more time and leaned her head back, breathing through her nose as she enjoyed the sensation. It didn’t take long for her breath to come quicker as her need grew.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Mmmm...mmmm….MMMPH!”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">The orgasm ripped through her in short order, she tugged on her bindings as she shook and the sensation of being bound pushed her over the edge again just as she was starting to come down. Her breathing coming out harsh as she gathered herself the toy still happily buzzing away making her pant a little.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“MPHHH!?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Groaning to herself as she flexed her fingers, she had dropped the control during her climax. She had been struggling in the bindings and hadn’t kept her head on enough to keep her hands closed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Fut…”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy sighed to herself as she rocked her hips into the toy a little, the slight thrill of it no longer being her choice almost had her wanting to stay sat there and let it overcome her again. With a grunt she shifted herself a little to press back against the chair as much as she could and pulled her legs up to give herself a little slack in the rope.</p> <p align="justify">She began to work them loose slowly, the ropes having tightened in her struggling. Slowly they began to loosen and she felt her legs shake as she had to hold them as she used her bound hands to try and pull the cords loose enough to get at least one of her hands free.</p> <p align="justify">Then she dropped her legs and she felt her work slip back into place.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“...Mmmmh? Fut.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Breathing heavily and waiting for the ache in her legs to fade so she could try again, but she knew she would climax again before she could attempt to get her wrists free, she would just have to be a little faster.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="center"><strong>~ * ~ * ~</strong></p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="center"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Well, what do we have here?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Groaning Cindy pulled her head up, the vibrator had pulled a fourth orgasm since her first escape attempt. Glancing up she saw her friend, June standing in the doorway, she had left the door open in her haste and she tugged on her bonds slightly as she stared at her friend.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Someone get a little stuck?” She smiled as she walked across the room and then around Cindy. “That’s a pretty nice setup...if you have a partner.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Mmph…”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy tried to push of the rising urge the toy was pushing her too, she didn’t want to cum with her friend right there. The image of June in her leather harness made her blush as she watched the tall woman slowly walk around her.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Leaning down, June snatched up the remote control to her toy and eyed the bound woman who was breathing heavily and obviously struggling, suppressing a smirk she clicked the button and the light buzzing sound grew louder, the results were wonderful to watch.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“MGHPPP!?”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy tensed up and began to shake, she let out a long drawn out groan past the thick gag then grunted as her nose was pinned, her eyes were wide as June held her head in place, her free hand reaching down into her bra to graze her nipple with her long nails.</p> <p align="justify">She tried to shake her head free and take a breath but the fingers held firm, all she could do was grunt as she climaxed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“That’s right, cum for me. You can call this punishment for being so stupid, I mean really… I know your blond but I thought you had more common sense than this.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">A few moments later the hands vanished and she drank in breath as fast as she could, choking a little from the action.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“You didn’t have a safety, you left the door wide open, it doesn’t look like you even looked up solo ties… What am I ever gonna do with you, luv.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy just groaned, tugging again at her wrists which were feeling sore now from the rope rubbing them.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">June let the remote drop into Cindy’s lap and reached over her again, her hands reaching for her breasts but passing them to the bottom of the bra which she pulled up slowly. The large breasts spilling out of them, nipples hard from the whole situation.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Here is the deal, I’m going to have a little fun with you and then I’ll let you free. Call it my payment for helping, if that’s good for you moan once, if you want me to just leave you here moan twice and I’ll check on you in an hour.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Moaning once Cindy looked up at her friend, her breathing through her nose shaky.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Okay, I’ll be back.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Watching the beautiful woman leave her alone in her bondage Cindy wondered just what she had agreed too as she glanced down at her exposed breasts and sighed. She didn’t like people looking at them but knew they were most likely going to be played with for a little bit at least in exchange for help – she found herself strangely content with that idea.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">June returned and closed the door up but didn’t close it as she moved towards Cindy, a sway in her hips as she kneeled down before the bound woman.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Next time, your going to tell me when your going to play. Your going to tell me exactly what your planning and when, it’s better to have a saftey net than end up like this.” She tugged on Cindy’s nipple roughly. “What if I had worked late? It would be another two hours before the train home, you could have gotten yourself hurt.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy just hung her head and groaned into her gag then squealed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">A cloths peg hung from the nipple June had just been teasing, her breathing came out quickly as she watched her other nipple being played with and becoming much harder, then the small clamp reached for her skin. Cindy tried to move away but she could only move so far bound as she was and it quickly found its mark making her groan as they hung there. Gently tugging her nipples down and making them ache slightly from being pressed.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“If you can get these off.” June flicked one of the cloths pegs pulling a sharp moan from her. “I’ll let you out, otherwise I’m going to sit here and enjoy your next orgasm or two.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Sitting back June took a kneeling position that Cindy had watched many submissive girls take in the videos when waiting for orders, she felt her friends eyes roaming her body as she began to shake her chest and wishing she hadn’t bound her waist the way she did.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">She tugged at her bondage and began to struggle as hard as she could, the toys continued buzzing and sensation mocking her, the cloths pegs turned into makeshift clamps tugged and pulled as she struggled only making her whine more rather than coming free.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Then the next orgasm came, she bucked hard then her strained moan became higher in pitch as the first peg flew off from her sudden jerk. Tingling and an ache followed it’s departure and she redoubled her efforts to get the next peg off, her breasts swaying and bouncing for June’s amusement as she watched the beautiful blond struggle with her task. Happy to see the event from the outside for once.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Eventually the peg came free and June slowly untied her ankles first, then moved around to begin working on the wrists, taking her time as her friend moaned and whimpered into the thick tape gag.</p> <p align="justify">Holding onto the knot before she slid it free and released her friend she again wrapped her arm around her and whispered into her ear.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Be glad I’m not an evil bitch, I could have called Master...he would have liked a nice tied up blond bombshell to toy with and then fuck.” She heard Cindy gasp, felt her shudder a little at the image. “Maybe next time, with your permission of course.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Releasing the bonds, Cindy was quick to pull her arms around and snatch up the remote, hitting the button twice to turn it off. Then groaning as she leaned forward, crossing her arms over herself, the chair had dug into her upper bicep more than she had been aware and now all the sensation was coming back.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Breathing heavily for a few moments before she was able to pull herself back together she unbuckled the belts holding her legs, feeling the pins and needles spread through her thighs as she stretched them out.</p> <p align="justify">Hands reaching up to the tape they were caught and held making her look towards her friend.</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">“Leave it on, your sexy like that and you don’t need to talk for a while. The others won’t be back until tomorrow since they went out to party, but I like you like this.”</p> <p align="justify"> </p> <p align="justify">Cindy eyed her friend, glancing over her cloths and wondering if she was wearing the harness even now. 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Trying to resolve within myself how and why I lost faith, renounced all things organized religion, and found myself in a lifestyle that, by all religious accounts, will send me straight to hell.</div> <div> </div> <div>Now, I’m going to need to trigger warning anyone who still holds their religious faith, you may not want to read this particular blog post.</div> <div> </div> <div>Growing up, I loved the sense of family and community I found in my church, we would get together more often then my relatedfamily, members of my church helped my family when we didn’t have food to eat, and even paid a significate amount of money so my brothers and I could go to a church camp that we all had our hearts set on. Children’s church was filled with the love of Christ and the promise of eternal life in streets of gold, stories of the good Samaritan, the golden rule, and miracles.</div> <div> </div> <div>As I grew older though, withing the teachings of my mother to think for myself, I found myself questioning many things, as I read through the bible for the 3rd time, I was finding too many teachings that didn’t feel right, the subservience of women to be the primary at the time. I really only knew my mom well enough to make any comparisons, but that women is a BOSS, taking care of the house, while working to provide for me, my brothers, and her PTSD addiction leaden boyfriend. My mom was and is a superhero and should be subservient to NO ONE. Then came the overwhelming signs of hypocrisy, we were supposed to love everyone, but anyone who didn’t believe was a horrible person and going to hell, and the only way they wouldn’t be a horrible person anymore was to become like us, and anyone not like us didn’t deserve our attention, charity, or compassion. Now, I know that all religious people are like this, but far too many of them are, and I have found that the more elitist you are the higher esteem you get in the church. To my experience, the ratio of hypocrites to genuine is grossly over balanced.</div> <div> </div> <div>Fast forward to 8 years ago, when I find the kink community here in Vegas. I see a people who not only value the same ideals of respect and love and acceptance as what the church is supposed to value, but a people who LIVE those values as well. It doesn’t matter if you are Gay, Straight or anything in-between, if you are a man, women or again, anything in-between; it doesn’t matter what color your skin is, or what gets you off, you are welcome. In this lifestyle you are judged off your character and your actions, your integrity and your honor. In this lifestyle we have community and family. In this lifestyle I found what I was always looking for in the church. Now, this is not to say that we do not have our hypocrites, I have met more then a few, but remember that ratio I spoke of above? The genuine to hypocrites is the way its over balanced here.</div> <div> </div> <div>So to all you Kinky motherfuckers, those of you who are honorable, integritous, respecting, and service oriented. 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I’d gotten the text almost an hour ago to come and let her go if she didn’t text me in another forty.</p> <p> </p> <p>Safety nets are important when you play by yourself, but I shouldn’t have been there for at least another ten, I just happened to be in the area when I got the text and made my way after the first text.</p> <p> </p> <p>She was beautiful in her self-inflicted predicament, I half wondered if she had done this intentionally to scratch an exhibition kink.</p> <p> </p> <p>Trapped in leather cuffs around her ankles and pulled them from the floor ether side of the chair by a thick cord which was held up by the chairs set and her essentially sitting on it.</p> <p>Her wrists were trapped in leather cuffs that had been chained to the arms of the chair, around the top and front of the arms to prevent her from pulling her arms back too much and another set at the elbow preventing them form being pulled forward too much too, looking closely one of the cuffs were padlocked within her reach, the other would have hurt to get into but she could squeeze her hand in but the elbow restraint prevented enough movement to pull it free again.</p> <p>Collar wrapped around her throat it was pulled around so the buckle was front facing the ring holding her back to the chair by a chain held by a small padlock on the back of the chair. A thick blindfold and ring gag completed her bondage with the addition of the loudly buzzing toy she was essentially pushing all her weight down on with her legs tied the way they were.</p> <p> </p> <p>She jerked in the seat, moaning loudly, her breathing quickening. Her body shook hard and I watched as the orgasm rippled through her body, her legs tugging hard, breasts swaying from her attempts to pull herself from the toy.</p> <p> </p> <p>Waiting for her to come down from the orgasm I briefly wondered just how many had been pulled from her as I slipped into the room, the key to the cuff dangled just out of her fingertips reach, the cord actually wrapped around the padlocks head.</p> <p> </p> <p>“Well, look what I found.”</p> <p> </p> <p>I breathed the words into her ear, making the panting woman jerk slightly. It was mean, but it got the reaction I wanted as she whined loudly and pulled on her bondage.</p> <p> </p> <p>“Do you want me to let you go?”</p> <p> </p> <p>She nodded as she began to breath heavier again.</p> <p> </p> <p>“Do you want me to let you go, now or come back in a few?”</p> <p> </p> <p>She whined in response, but seemed to consider it for a few long moments before she whined again trying to say now.</p> <p> </p> <p>“Okay, I can do that.”</p> <p> </p> <p>I ran a hand under her chin, brushing a thumb gently over her lip making her gasp slightly. My other hand travelled down to gently cup a breast.</p> <p> </p> <p>“You can pay me back, later.”</p> <p> </p> <p>Nodding she groaned as I released her head. If she didn’t want some ‘payment for services’ she wouldn’t have called on me to help her.</p> <p> </p> <p>I started with her legs, unbuckling the leather cuffs, letting her sit properly. 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But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div> <div> </div> <div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div> <div> </div> <div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div> <div> </div> <div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div> <div> </div> <div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div> <div> </div>', 'search_desc' => 'Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. So I thought about why it didn't sit right.... My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person. Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices. There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent. But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. 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