Basics Guide for Dominants

If you are new to the lifestyle or interested in being a Top or Dominant for a scene or in a dynamic, here is our starting Guide on introducing dynamic play in the bedroom.

It is not an extensive guide, and attending local events, classes and doing research across different resources is important. You must always have consent and safety in mind, and never do anything that you are not sure about or do not know how to do properly.

We try to ensure we use gender neutral language in any resources we provide, please reach out to us if we need to make additional changes to make the material les het-norm or more gender neutral - we are always looking to improve.

Posted by in BDSM/Kink Education on January 23 2023 at 05:20 PM · Public 0 195

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$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_chrono.ctp, line 3
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 64
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_chrono.ctp, line 3
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 64
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_chrono.ctp, line 3
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 64
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_chrono.ctp, line 3
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 64
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 26
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 26
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
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$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 26
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 26
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
$type = 'private_message'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'private_message'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'private_message'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/comment_form.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/comments_widget.ctp, line 70
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooView::renderComment() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 922
include - APP/Plugin/Document/View/Documents/view.ctp, line 82
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

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