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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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If I have this correct:
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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If I have this correct:
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
</div><div class="core-item-pin"><?php if ( $topic['Topic']['pinned'] ): ?>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
00000000Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 128]
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div> </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.
If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div> </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person.
if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div> </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
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<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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If I have this correct:
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The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
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<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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'description' => '<div>This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here.</div>
<div>
<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
<p align="justify">Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?</p>
<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.
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If I have this correct:
Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more?
The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?
Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.
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'description' => '<div>Basicly yes.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Vetting can be a little more though than just checking compatibility - for example speaking to previous play partners, talking with other people about their thoughts on the person. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
<div> </div>
<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract
https://altlife.community/pages/vetting
https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51 - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts',
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<p align="justify">I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts.</p>
<p align="justify">I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such.</p>
<p align="justify"> </p>
<p align="justify">If I have this correct:</p>
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<p align="justify">The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct?</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<p align="justify">Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p>
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<div> </div>
<div>if you havent already, we have a section about vetting, negotiation etc in our educational resources menu as well as an example contract</div>
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<div><a href="/pages/vetting">https://altlife.community/pages/vetting</a></div>
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<div><a href="/pages/negotiation">https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation</a></div>
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<div><a href="/document/documents/index/category:51">https://altlife.community/document/documents/index/category:51</a> - downloadable resources on vetting, redflags and contracts</div>',
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https://altlife.community/pages/negotiation
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Posted by AnnaKink on January 29 2023 at 02:35 PM
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This is a free resource and provides an introduction to red flags and vetting in BDSM. It is not an comprehensive document and should be treated as an additional resource to be used to learn about ...
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We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net.</p> </div>', 'search_desc' => 'This could be useful to other people, so rather than messaging a couple of you directly I'm putting myself out there and asking here. I’ve heard a lot of talk about Vetting and Contracts. I have the general gist, as I’m sure others are with work and such. If I have this correct: Vetting is checking for red flags, seeing if likes and dislikes line up, if personalities clash, if you can work as friends or more? The contract is more straight forward, its a hard note of what’s expected and where the boundaries are if I have this correct? Figured I would make sure, I’ve never had to do any of that before due to my previous partners and myself just kinda falling into the top/sub dynamic. We did learn our boundaries and hard nos in that time but I can see where vetting and contracts are an excellent safety net. 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