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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 67]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 71]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 82]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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'moo_thumb' => 'thumb'
),
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'notification_email' => true,
'timezone' => 'Australia/Sydney',
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'lang' => 'en-u',
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'moo_type' => 'User',
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)
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 149
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 153
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 157
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 161
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 165
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 169
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 173
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 177
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181]
ReactionHelper::priorityReView() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Helper/ReactionHelper.php, line 181
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 41
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
00000000Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67]
include - APP/Plugin/Reaction/View/Elements/reaction_review.ctp, line 67
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
ReactionListener::renderItemReactionReview() - APP/Plugin/Reaction/Lib/ReactionListener.php, line 589
CakeEventManager::dispatch() - CORE/Cake/Event/CakeEventManager.php, line 244
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 85
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 128]
$viewFile = '/home/kinkysouls/public_html/demo.altlife.community/app/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp'
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'magicPageIsApp' => false,
'hide_like' => (int) 1,
'hide_dislike' => (int) 1,
'keyword' => 'honorifics',
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'filter' => null,
'activity_comments' => array(),
'comments' => array(),
'is_search' => true,
'activities' => array(),
'other_suggestion' => array(
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),
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'icon_class' => 'forum',
'view' => 'Forum.lists/topic_list_m'
)
),
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[maximum depth reached]
),
'LastPost' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'Forum' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
),
'User' => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
)
),
'is_app' => false,
'utz' => 'Australia/Sydney',
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(int) 11 => 'photo_view',
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(int) 16 => 'attachment_upload',
(int) 17 => 'attachment_download',
(int) 18 => 'message_send_non_member',
(int) 19 => 'message_send_private',
(int) 20 => 'chat_allow_chat',
(int) 21 => 'chat_allow_send_picture',
(int) 22 => 'chat_allow_send_files',
(int) 23 => 'chat_allow_user_emotion',
(int) 24 => 'chat_allow_chat_group',
(int) 25 => 'chat_allow_video_calling',
(int) 26 => 'chat_allow_sending_non_friend',
(int) 27 => 'faq_view',
(int) 28 => 'feedback_view_feedback_listing',
(int) 29 => 'friendinviter_invite',
(int) 30 => 'poke_create',
(int) 31 => 'poke_allow_poke',
(int) 32 => 'poke_can_access_other_actions',
(int) 33 => 'poll_view',
(int) 34 => 'store_view_product_detail',
(int) 35 => 'visual_notification_view',
(int) 36 => 'whoviewme_viewed_me',
(int) 37 => 'whoviewme_i_viewed',
(int) 38 => 'whoviewme_view_invisible',
(int) 39 => 'business_claim',
(int) 40 => 'business_view',
(int) 41 => 'forum_view',
(int) 42 => 'quiz_view',
(int) 43 => 'quiz_take',
(int) 44 => 'verify_profile_verify',
(int) 45 => 'whonearme_can_search_friends',
(int) 46 => 'gift_can_send_gift',
(int) 47 => 'gift_allow_photo_gift',
(int) 48 => 'gift_allow_audio_gift',
(int) 49 => 'gift_allow_video_gift',
(int) 50 => 'gift_allow_send_gift',
(int) 51 => 'document_view',
(int) 52 => 'matchmaking_view',
(int) 53 => 'meetme_appear',
(int) 54 => 'meetme_allow_like',
(int) 55 => 'contest_view',
(int) 56 => 'fundraising_view',
(int) 57 => 'recipe_view',
(int) 58 => 'ads_hide_all_ads',
(int) 59 => 'livenews_view',
(int) 60 => 'credit_use',
(int) 61 => 'question_create',
(int) 62 => 'question_view',
(int) 63 => 'elearning_view',
(int) 64 => 'review_write',
(int) 65 => 'review_recieve',
(int) 66 => 'livevideo_stream',
(int) 67 => 'livevideo_view'
),
'uid' => null,
'role_id' => (int) 3,
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'cuser' => array(),
'CurrentThemeHelper' => object(ThemeDefaultHelper) {
theme_enable_appearance => true
settings => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
helpers => array([maximum depth reached])
theme => null
request => object(CakeRequest) {}
plugin => null
fieldset => array([maximum depth reached])
tags => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _helperMap => array([maximum depth reached])
[protected] _tainted => null
[protected] _cleaned => null
[protected] _View => object(MooView) {}
[protected] _fieldSuffixes => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
[protected] _modelScope => null
[protected] _association => null
[protected] _entityPath => null
[protected] _minimizedAttributes => array(
[maximum depth reached]
)
[protected] _attributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
[protected] _minimizedAttributeFormat => '%s="%s"'
},
'isThemeDarkMode' => false,
'theme_enable_appearance' => true,
'current_theme' => 'default',
'site_rtl' => false,
'site_langs' => array(
'eng' => 'English'
),
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'default' => 'Default Theme',
'teal' => 'Teal Theme',
'rainbow' => 'Rainbow Theme',
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
/
Notice (8): Undefined index: Topic [APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/lists/topics_list.ctp, line 133]
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
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There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
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View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
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'description' => '<div>Thought I would start an educational thread and open up to thr community to discuss. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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<div> </div>
<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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<div>I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....
My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.</div>
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<div>But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community. </div>
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I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way.
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
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<div>I came across this from a pro-Domme on instagram and I was trying to work out why this post rubbed me the wrong way. </div>
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<p align="center"><a class="attached-image" href="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/1500_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg"><img src="/uploads/photos/thumbnail/2022/08/14/2263/450_01f583700697c485e658b86ce62ad2a0.jpg" /></a></p>
So I thought about why it didn't sit right....</div>
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<div>My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.</div>
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<div>Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.</div>
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My thoughts because this is a pro-Domme talking about how things work as a SexWorker and Professional Dominant. But that this doesn't always work inthe real world with the average person.
Why? Because every BDSM community is different - so thr above post doesn't reflect that the BDSM lifestyle is customisable and in different regions morals and acceptable behaviour is different. It also doesn't consider the history behind the phrase "submission is earnt" - which was coined years ago in an attempt to educate submissives in the lifestyle because there was an upsurgence of abusive dominants and practices.
There is a movement in the online community that talks about honorifics not to be used unless consented to or only with someone you are in a dynamic with. Its not about hierarchy, it's about consent.
But depending on what community you evolved in what is written may very well be what happens in your local community.
I am interested in other people's thoughts on this because I think discussing these topics is important.
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View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Topic/View/Elements/search/search_hashtags.ctp, line 2
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Search/hashtags.ctp, line 200
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968
AppController::render() - APP/Controller/AppController.php, line 1046
Dispatcher::_invoke() - CORE/Cake/Routing/Dispatcher.php, line 200
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