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A place to post about your fetlife/dating site horror experiences feel free to vent

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Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722]Code Context        }

        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
$type = 'post_feed'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722]Code Context        }

        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
$type = 'post_feed'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723]Code Context
        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'post_feed'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723]Code Context
        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'post_feed'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 5
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 473
MooView::render() - APP/View/MooView.php, line 807
Controller::render() - CORE/Cake/Controller/Controller.php, line 968

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722]Code Context        }

        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_chrono.ctp, line 48
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722]Code Context        }

        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 722
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_chrono.ctp, line 48
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type bool [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723]Code Context
        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_chrono.ctp, line 48
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63

Notice (8): Trying to access array offset on value of type null [APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723]Code Context
        $restrict_time = $viewer['User']['restrict_time'];
        $restrict_access = json_decode($viewer['User']['restrict_access'], true);
$type = 'comment'
$viewer = false
$restrict_time = null
MooCore::checkPermissionRestrict() - APP/Lib/MooCore.php, line 723
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_chrono.ctp, line 48
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/View/Elements/activities_widget.ctp, line 27
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
MooActivityHelper::wall() - APP/View/Helper/MooActivityHelper.php, line 22
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Elements/ajax/group_detail.ctp, line 244
View::_evaluate() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 971
View::_render() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 933
View::_renderElement() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 1224
View::element() - CORE/Cake/View/View.php, line 418
include - APP/Plugin/Group/View/Groups/view.ctp, line 63

joined group Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

on July 03 2023 at 01:45 PM

Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

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on February 09 2023 at 07:28 PM

Had so many bad experiences one that sticker out was on kinkD specifically was seeking a gentle D type Daddy/Mommy etc and had this one guy say he was a Faddy as we started talking started talking shop about heavy sadomasochistic leaving g whip/cane marks etc.

Instant block for me as those were hard limits that I told him.about.

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joined group Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

on February 05 2023 at 07:53 AM

Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

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on February 03 2023 at 02:20 AM

Why is it always the "guy's" job to keep the conversation going

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on February 01 2023 at 11:26 AM

Why is it they all end up like this never reply back Whether they initiate contact or not what is wrong with me

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I get a lot of these, too, unfortunately.

on February 02 2023 at 02:12 PM

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on January 23 2023 at 11:28 AM

Not a horror story. But something that did hit home after I left my husband and was in my first healthy relationship.

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Yeeeeessssss!!!!!!!!!! It's kinda mind blowing 🤯 😳 you're always expecting the same reactions to certain situations and when that doesn't happen it's very confusing at first .

on January 26 2023 at 04:00 AM

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— Feeling aggravated

on January 20 2023 at 01:39 PM

I was trying to be nice!!! 😣🤦🏼‍♀️

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& rightfully so

on January 22 2023 at 04:17 AM

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joined group Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

on January 20 2023 at 05:57 PM

Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

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— Feeling irritated

on January 20 2023 at 01:07 PM

Dude was deliberately trying to piss me off…. 🙄🙄

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I love that it tells on them if they save anything!

I like that I can send a spicy pic and delete it after they have seen it.

And I like that if I block them they lose the entire conversation as well as pics.

on January 20 2023 at 01:23 PM

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on January 11 2023 at 12:34 PM

I will go first there is this fuggin guy

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Narcissistic piece of trash right there! 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

on January 20 2023 at 12:50 PM

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joined group Dating/ Fetlife horror stories

on January 20 2023 at 12:16 PM

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on January 16 2023 at 03:28 AM

Hello... Not truly a horror story, I guess. Maybe it's just me and my demisexual brain. I'm just not sure why anyone thinks I want to go to the next level of communication when they haven't put ANY effort into the first one.

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i get these all the time sadly then they get salty when i tell them no i am going to be happy when i can download my old photos and clear my profile

on January 18 2023 at 01:09 PM

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